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Westfield Residents Trying to Avoid Houston's Funeral

To accommodate the Sunday morning funeral procession of Whitney Houston, police are closing roads around Fairview Cemetery.

Amy Harrett says she is a Whitney Houston fan, but she won't line up on East Broad Street to watch the pop icon's funeral procession turn into Westfield's Fairview Cemetery.

"It's going to be a madhouse," said Harrett, who lives close to the cemetery. "There is going to be a ton of people here — the media, fans, everyone. I don't want to say it's an inconvenience, but I know I won't be able to get anything done if I stay here."

Harrett says that after policemen knocked on her door yesterday to tell her that her street would be closed to accommodate Houston's burial, she called her mother  to plan a visit. She's leaving tonight and will spend Sunday at her mother's house in Queens.

"I don't want to be trapped here because of her funeral," she said.

Mayor Andy Skibitsky confirmed the funeral is set for late Sunday morning, but he said he did not know the exact time. Houston's funeral, held this afternoon at New Hope Baptist Church in Newark, drew her mother, Cissy, her daughter, Bobbi Christina, her cousin, Dionne Warwick. The star-studded crowd of 1,500 included Newark Mayor Cory Booker, Governor Chris Christie, Oprah Winfrey, Clive Davis and Jennifer Hudson. The ceremony featured eulogies from Kevin Costner, Tyler Perry, a song from Stevie Wonder 

Westfield Police told Patch that the funeral plans have not been confirmed, but they are making preparations for the event.

Westfield Police Lt. John Ricerca said if they receive confirmation from the family, the entire length of Gallows Hill Road would be closed to northbound traffic starting at 6 a.m. Sunday to be used as a media staging area.

"We are trying to accommodate the family's needs and the needs of residents as well," Ricerca said just before 1 p.m. Friday. "However, nothing has been confirmed by the family right now."

Harrett's neighbor's James McCreary, said he think it's a honor that Houston will be buried in the cemetery, but expects the same media circus as Harrett. 

He said he doesn't understand why the crowds are forming since the family has indicated it is a private ceremony.

"It's not like they are going to let fans into the burial," he said. "They should respect the family and respect the town and stay home. They can come pay their respects later."

Allison February 18, 2012 at 10:47 pm
I just went to Fairview to see my father that is burried there with my little brother and sister and we are told that due to the spectators we are not allowed in. I find it horrible that we are turned away from seeing loved ones burried there because of a celebrity that is not even burried there yet.
Carol February 18, 2012 at 11:10 pm
That is absolutely horrible they did that to you, your brother and sister Allison. I have a feeling a lot of Whitney Houston fans will be going there a lot. I hope they respect all those who have passed and been laid to rest at Fairview.
Melissa DeNicola February 18, 2012 at 11:38 pm
That is ridiculous. Thanks for posting though. Tomorrow is the anniversary of my father's death (he is always buried at Fairview) and I guess I shouldn't even bother to go visit and leave flowers for him :(
n February 18, 2012 at 11:41 pm
"We are trying to accommodate the family's needs and the needs of residents as well," Ricerca said just before 1 p.m. Friday. "However, nothing has been confirmed by the family right now."
Well it doesn't sound like the residents count. Just remember that when the next election come and when you pay your tax bill.
Jamie February 19, 2012 at 12:18 am
My husband past awayed on December 22 and I have gone everyday. Being told today that I can't come in by the police cause of spectaors is discusting. People shoud be allowed to see there loved ones. We should have been notifed by Fairview I went in twice asking if they were closing at all for this I was told no.
melissa February 19, 2012 at 01:12 am
Well u all have great point .but it not Whitney or family started this .it not there fault .it only because she is very known of being 1 of best sweet singer .and not forgetting she is celbrity .so no one should be harsh about it .you all deserve to see your love ones.but fairview should make better accomdation to assist all who have love one there.Whitney is special just like your love ones .so please she is not to be blame she just much more know because of her music and being great person .
Bill February 19, 2012 at 02:34 am
I went to Fairview to visit my uncles grave site and go for a short walk in the cemetery on Friday. There were cars everywhere, coming in from both entrances. Some families were letting their children out of the cars to comb certain areas to look for the grave site. The parents were yelling to their kids across the cemetery, and the kids back to their parents. All the while, some people were trying to visit grave sites. Many people started to look at the deer, and Fairview is their home. The deer were frantically running out of fear, only to run into more people on the other side. I aborted my idea of walking, and tried to leave, but cars were blocking all the roads. Some people had parked in the middle of a lane that was meant for 2 cars to pass and left their cars running to look for the grave site. It was total mayhem! And an awful display of disrespect for the cemetery. As I found one lane that had no cars blocking it, I headed for the front entrance. I was quickly followed by two mercedes and a land rover. They seemed to want to follow me to see if I knew where the site was. Then they gave up as they realized I was exiting the cemetery.
I feel sorry for the people who were there to visit graves of friends and loved ones. And also for the deer, who were very upset. As I left, I said to myself, "I hope they close this cemetery soon." I'm just one person, but closing the cemetery will preserve dignity and respect for the people who are buried there.
Jo Anne February 19, 2012 at 12:37 pm
A funeral IS for family,, why would you think you have a right to be there,, Whitney Houston may have been a celebrity but she was a human being with a grieving family and their wishes take presidence of yours,, it's terrible how fans always want to turn everything into a circus,, such shame,, My Mom and Dad are buried in Fairview and I know I can go anyday to see them so not being able to go on Sat or sun is not life changing,, The police and the town official really don't have much choice about blocking off roads and closing access to the cemetery with fans thinking it's their RIGHT to be there,, Chaos is not something one wants at the burial of a loved one,, Monday it will all be forgotten ,, it's one day out of the year,, Seems very sad that compassion seems to be another important word that's losing it's hold on society,, just like the word respect
LB February 19, 2012 at 01:34 pm
Anyone who claims they are a true fan of Whitney Houston's should stay home and let her family have some peace. Think of her 18 year old daughter, who apparently has had a rather turbulent life with her parents' lifestyle and now has to deal with her mother's death, and stay away out of respect. That's what a true fan would do. For those "fans" who seem to think that they've been "left out in the cold" -- you are not Houston's family or personal friend. A fan's way of showing admiration and respect is purchasing a concert ticket, applauding for a performance well-done and purchasing CDs or books. Think of your own families: would you want a media circus and strangers at what should be a private time?
Jo Anne February 19, 2012 at 03:11 pm
Well said LB,, it's sad that more people don't think that way,, it appears it's a me me me society we find ourselves with,, really too sad
Marie Kelichner McCormack February 19, 2012 at 03:23 pm
I'm sorry that anyone even announced WHICH cemetery she would be buried at. How long do you think it will be before someone finds her grave and does God knows what? This family will never find the peace that they deserve in mourning the loss of Whitney.
LB February 19, 2012 at 03:58 pm
Thanks, Jo Anne.
Monk February 19, 2012 at 04:21 pm
I just got back from my Sunday jog which traverses Broad Street. Total circus around the cemetary. Hundreds of gawkers, and media to egg them on. Scores of state and local police. All because people prefer to live vicariously than in the real world. A very sad commentary on society.
CC Farr February 19, 2012 at 04:49 pm
I am a Westfield resident, and I am avoiding going to that area today. I haven't been over there and assume it will be crazy with media and fans, and curious Westfield residents lining the streets. If I had a relative buried there, it would not bother me at all to visit on a different day, once the hoopla was over -- and within HOURS it will be. The only sad thing for the families who have loved ones there -- in the short term I think -- is that fans may trek there to try to locate Whitney's grave site. Hopefully it will remain a peaceful place for the families -- including Whitney's family -- to pay respect to loved ones who have passed on. I love walking through the cemetary in the spring when the trees are in bloom. Such a pretty place. Let's hope all who visit respect it and the people who have loved ones there.
Bill February 19, 2012 at 06:02 pm
Speaking of our me me me society. When I posted my comment last night about Friday, I left this out from the comment. I was standing at our family plot, trying to say the Lord's Prayer, and about 40 feet away there was a grave freshly covered over with dirt. A teenage girl in a pink hoodie ran over to the grave site and her sneaker sunk into the dirt up to her ankle as she looked at the stone. As she was pulling her sneaker out, Her mother called from the car, "Is that it?". She yelled back, "No, the name on the stone is wrong!" She left a deep foot print on a freshly covered over grave, probably from a funeral that took place that morning. Very sad what our society is becoming. This will all hopefully calm down soon though.

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